The story of most break ups sound the same and you can usually pin point the root problem directly once you hear the story. But after hearing countless of stories of people that broke up with their ex lover, most of them admit that the breakup mostly stemmed for some sort of lack of appreciation on both sides. Also, some of the worst break ups, were over issues that were not even important. To make a long story short though, I am giving them a book to read that will help on how to get back with your ex before the end of 3 months.